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Saturday, February 28, 2015

Vacation to Great Wolf Lodge - Grapevine, TX

On February 15th, we headed down to Grapevine, TX, with my parents to enjoy a mini vacation at Great Wolf Lodge (GWL). We had so much fun!!! The big girls were out of school on the 16th & 17th, so we let them play hookie on the 18th since we drove home that day. For the record, missing school was Weasey's idea. You know, the retired school teacher. She had a great point though, the girls are young so we might as well take advantage of missing a day now before all three are in school and classes get more hectic.

This picture of Parker was taken on the drive down (check out Bailey's sweet glasses in the back seat). Unfortunately, Parker started getting congested the day before we left so I packed up all of the meds that might be needed while we were gone. She ended up with a 102 fever that first night so we (and lots of friends) covered her with prayer and she persevered. The next morning her fever was down to 99, and she enjoyed herself at the indoor water park. She did throw up the second and third nights from coughing and congestion, but other than that, she was doing ok and we were keeping a close eye on her.


Before heading to the Lodge, we stopped at REI since we don't have this store in Tulsa. The girls played on the Boot Test Trail, reclined in some portable chairs, and crawled in a tent while we shopped. Good times!


The girls were so excited when we drove up to the Lodge for the first time. I must admit, I was a little excited myself! It's a gigantic place o'fun!


We stayed in one of the Kids Cabins. The girls had their own "log cabin" inside our room. It had three beds (one being a bunk) and their own TV.


The entire place was designed with kids (and adults) in mind! You could stay there for weeks and never have to leave. They have an indoor/outdoor water park with multiple levels, lots of slides, a wave pool, kids pool, multiple hot tubs, a lazy river, etc. You also have access to an adult/kids salon, multiple restaurants, game room, Magic Quest, story times, life size characters, gift shops, swim store, ice cream parlor, movie theater, etc. You name it, it's there!



Parker fell asleep at the dinner table on our first night at the lodge, and her daddy had to carry her to bed. Not feeling well mixed with too much fun at the water park equals one pooped kiddo. Success!


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On day two and three, we played the Magic Quest game with the girls. It's basically a scavenger hunt over the 8 floors of the lodge. You have a wand and a guide book that helps you navigate the floors and find things hidden all over the place. It was a lot of fun! The girls (and mom and dad) enjoyed the game while all of us got a workout by taking the stairs from floor to floor. Well played on the cardio workout GWL, well played!

I couldn't be more proud that Greg found a Sasquatch on vacation. He does exist (at least at GWL)!


The water slide on the top left of the below picture was crazy! My dad and I rode that on an inner tube together on night three. We got in the tube and the enclosed slide immediately went outside were it was pitch black. We literally could not see a thing as we took the curves, dips, and rocked back and forth in that huge funnel. We laughed the entire ride. It was hilarious and made a great memory. Love you dad!

Greg and I also went together on a slide earlier that day that was part inside and part outside. We laughed the entire time because the inner tube went much faster than we anticipated. He and Bailey rode the same slide the day before. So much fun!


Bailey rode home with Pops and Weasey and these two silly girls rode with us. Lou gets the award for the Most Creative Use of her Luggage as a Pillow!


If you haven't been to GWL, we highly recommend it. Even though the water park was indoor, it was a little cold in there so be aware of that if you go in the winter time. But, being there in the off season and during part of the week, allowed us to do whatever we wanted to do with out waiting in long lines. A big thanks to my parents for bringing up the idea to vacation there and letting us go with them. Fun, Fun, Fun!




Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Is Clean Eating for Skinny People?

January is one of the most exciting months for the Clean Eating Challenge because it yields the highest number of people looking for change. And, I might add, we had a very determined group of approximately 300 people this January! I'm blessed to get to share in their daily journey as myself and my team coach them through the Do's and Don'ts of exchanging their bad eating habits for good ones. I've read many life changing testimonies so it was hard to narrow it down to just one, but this speaks volumes to the naysayers of this program. In case you didn't know, I used to be a naysayer myself. Please read this testimony from someone who was presumed healthy because she was skinny...

"My detox journey was about developing healthier habits. Because the Lord blessed me with an amazing metabolism, everyone has always assumed I must be a healthy eater. But that was far from the truth. I was a serial junk food eater. My normal routine consisted of hot chocolate for breakfast, a candy bar out of the vending machine by 10:30, Sonic or Charlie’s for lunch, an afternoon snack of an entire bag of Cadbury mini eggs (yes, I stock piled these in the spring to have them all year long) and then dinner out at a nice restaurant (usually appetizer, entrĂ©e and dessert) every night. Mix in at least three (or four) Route 44 sweet teas somewhere in there. You know it’s bad when the car hop recognizes your car and usually brings the tea out to you before you even have time to place the order… My annual checkup in November showed that I had high cholesterol, we were spending an insane amount of money on food because it was a great rarity that we cooked at home and I was addicted to sugar. Or at least I thought I was...
Meanwhile, as my almost one year old was exploring her palate, I was refusing to allow her any sugar. I had read somewhere that whatever you expose them to their first year will grow to be the things they crave as they get older. I told my husband that I didn’t want her to eat like me so she got LOTS of vegetables and absolutely NO sugar. He would always ask if he could share a cookie or a drink of juice with her and the answer was always an adamant “no.” One day, he said to me, “You know, if it’s not good enough for her, maybe it’s not good enough for you either.”
Not too long after that, a friend, who I had met through a mutual friend several years ago, contacted me and asked to have lunch. We met at Chick-fil-a with our kids in tow and briefly talked about the detox program. She had me signed up a week later. My husband and I went on a cruise the first week in January so I had to start with the second group. I wasn’t sure how I was going to be able to go two days without sugar, much less four weeks. But I knew that I needed to try. Thankfully, while there is an abundance of food options on a cruise ship, most of the desserts are not actually that high in sugar, so it was good preparation for what was to come.
We returned on Sunday and started the detox the next morning. That night as I was menu planning for the week, my husband said, “If I’m going to have to eat this stuff for dinner too, I may as well do the whole detox with you.” And he did… sort of… he couldn’t quit the coffee, or the occasional beer, but he humored me with detox tea and spinach shakes and I packed him a lunch and healthy snacks every day. And every night we all sat around the dinner table and ate our home-cooked healthy meal. Even my daughter tried everything we ate and I’ve yet to find anything this kid won’t eat. That in itself is reason enough for me to continue with a healthy eating lifestyle.
All my life I have been a VERY picky eater. It is extremely rare that I will even try a new food. I hate spicy foods and I’m not crazy about salty things. I’m a very bland eater and once I find something I like, I don’t really vary much. I had never tried bell peppers. I purposely omitted onions from every recipe. I enjoyed squash, zucchini, carrots and sweet potatoes, but beyond those, most vegetables were just too big of a risk thanks to the fear of the unknown. I had never even considered trying spinach. But the recipes on the meal plan made me challenge myself. I committed to making each one exactly as written, with no omissions or substitutions. And I was truly surprised at how much I enjoyed some of the foods I have always been scared of. Now I eat spinach every day. Yes, every day. And I love it. My shakes don’t taste right without it and I question why I ever ate iceberg lettuce in a salad to begin with. I have easily replaced most of the candy I was eating every day with raw veggies. And I love how much better I feel throughout the day.
Another thing I discovered through this process was that I really missed cooking. I grew up helping in the kitchen and before life got too busy I used to make dinner every night. Now I know that there are quick and easy options or things I can start the night before that can still give me a chance to spend some time in the kitchen. And even the meals that take a little longer, I have fun with. It’s kind of a little form of therapy to know you are providing a healthy meal for your family. And our dinner time at our own table is a completely different experience than that at a restaurant. It’s now a time that we look forward to and cherish.
I also learned that most of my sugar addiction was mental. My body didn’t need it nearly as much as my brain did. And when my brain decided that I was going all in with this, I hardly wanted it at all. In fact, last night I came home from a meeting, on the last day of detox, to find a gallon jug of Red Diamond sweet tea in the fridge with a note that said “I’m proud of you” on it. Very sweet gesture, but even sweeter was that there was not a single piece of me that had even the slightest desire to open it! 
And the water! I’ve been around long enough to know how important water is to the human body, but sweet tea just tasted so much better. But guess what? Tea is also a diuretic. So while I was taking in a ton of fluid before, I was actually not giving my body any chance to sustain itself. I was probably in a constant state of dehydration. Since I’ve started drinking a minimum of a half-gallon of water every day, I feel better, I have less food cravings, my skin is clearer and my face is fuller and shows less signs of age. I will definitely continue giving my body water. I’ve actually grown to crave water. I carry a 16-oz insulated cup with a straw in it literally everywhere I go and am constantly filling it up. It’s amazing how something so obvious was so easily ignored before. And even more amazing is how easy that good habit was to develop and how quickly I saw positive results from making that simple change.

While I did accidentally lose five pounds on this journey, that was never a goal of mine. That in itself was another eye opener for me. I will probably never be big thanks to my genetics, but I have no desire to be this small either. Just another indicator of how unhealthy I was. Now I am working to regain that weight as healthy muscle instead of junk-fueled fat. I have so much more motivation to work out and do strength training now than I used to. Once you know a 112 pound person has the ability to lose five pounds in a month just by cutting out sugar, it makes you realize how weak those remaining 107 pounds are and how much that hour at the gym everyday really helps me feel stronger, both physically and mentally.

So that’s my journey. It’s one of healthier habits and more dedication to my family through taking care of both them and myself. Even off the detox I started this day with my detox tea and my spinach protein shake. And I turned down a cupcake when I got to work this morning. Not because it’s necessary, but because I just didn’t want it. Now I am an Arbonne Consultant, mostly so I can get the good stuff at a discount, but who knows where that journey will lead. I’m excited to see what the future holds!"

If something in that testimony spoke to you, please contact me at morrison25@cox.net. I would love to share more with you about this journey to a healthier you ... and a healthier family. Together, we can break old habits and form new ones. This challenge is for anyone, no matter where you live! 

Upcoming Oklahoma Meetings:
If you live in the Muskogee area, you are invited to this event on Thursday, Feb 19th, at Hattie's House (a local boutique). Bring a friend and enjoy a Clean dinner along with samples of Arbonne's Nutrition items.


If you live in the Tulsa area, you are invited to this event on Monday, Feb 23rd. Again, bring a friend and enjoy a Clean dinner along with samples of Arbonne's Nutrition items.


1 Corinthians 6:19-20 - "Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies."

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

BRCA: It Is Finished!



The race started on Jan 6, 2014 and it ended on Feb 9, 2015. From the first call of my doctor telling me I was BRCA2 positive with an 87% chance of getting breast cancer and a 55% chance of getting ovarian cancer to "I don't have to see you for a year." It's been a roller coaster ride, and I'm glad it's over. 2014 was tough, but God made me tougher and for that I'm grateful. I wouldn't change one moment of my journey because I'm now in a better place of understanding to help others. So, whatever God has in store for me, I know that He has prepared me for the road ahead. 

I saw my Plastic Surgeon last week and he released me for good. I saw my Breast Specialist yesterday and she said I don't have to come back for a year. Wonderful news! I still have to rub lotion on my scars twice a day until the inner stitches are gone which could take another 3 months, and I have to work on getting my implants to shift more towards the middle ... but overall, things are good! I'll have follow up MRI's every 10 years, and I still have to do breast self exams to watch for any abnormality since my chance of getting breast cancer will never be 0%, but it is significantly lower. Like less than 8%. Praise the Lord!

The only negatives that I've dealt with from the full hysterectomy are break outs on my back (which aren't nearly as bad now as they were in the beginning) and I'm freezing most of the time due to hormone changes. I haven't lost my mind so I'd call that a win!

The #1 question that people ask me is ... "Do you love your new boobs?" My answer is that we have a love/hate relationship. I didn't want them in the first place so it definitely took some adjusting, not to mention my route to get them wasn't a lot of fun. I'm getting used to them, but I'm not at the "loving them" stage yet. They are still numb and they could stay that way for life, or the feeling could come back in 5-10 years per my doctor. I would love for it to come back sooner than later, but I'll be fine either way. 

My parents got me a massage for my birthday in December and I finally took the time to go last week. I was hesitant because I wasn't sure how I would feel laying on my chest for that long. When I mentioned my concern to the tech, she came back with this chest pillow that went under the bottom sheet of the bed. Pure awesomeness! Good old booby cutouts in a pillow. Who knew?!


Here are some pics of my Breast Specialists office. Every exam room is decorated this way and it's so inviting. I love the lighting!




And, here I am ... in my last blue cape of this journey! God is good! All the time!



Number of Doctor visits: Approx 40
Number of major surgeries: 3
BRCA Testing, Mammogram, Ovary Ultrasound, Breast MRI, Hysterectomy with Ovary Removal, Double Mastectomy with First and Second Stage Breast Reconstruction: Approx $120,000
Knowing I'll never get breast or ovarian cancer: PRICELESS

Thank you for taking this journey with me. Thank you for the prayers, meals, cards, encouragement, support, and love. My strength came from each of you, and my prayer is that God returns the favor to you like the lyrics of one of my favorite songs (More Than You'll Ever Know by Watermark)...

"You have carried me
You have taken up on a burden that wasn't your own
And may the blessing return to you
A hundredfold"

1 Corinthians 9:24 - "Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize."